What do I think about when I meet someone for the first time in a BDSM context (and sometimes outside that context)? I try to figure out their deepest darkest cravings, their needs, and what type of pain they might be drawn to. Not everyone wants to be spanked, slapped or whipped - there are different types of pain; mental, physical and emotional. One of the challenges of submitting is letting go of everything else, feeling that rush when a sensual and powerful Domme takes control of your body and mind for as long as she wants to. Whatever type of submission you are craving, I want my voice to guide you by asking questions - what do you want, and how far would you be willing to go?