"Suck, fuck, cum. That is the porn scene formula for getting the most clicks, likes and money. So this is what we see the most, masturbate to and then train our cocks to respond to. Then we fantasize about this sexual formula when we play scenes in our heads and perform the same sexual acts with our hookups or partners. Of course these sex acts are super hot and I LOVE to suck and fuck, buy I also LOVE mutual stroking as the main event of a play date. I used to think that a hook up was kind of a failure if I didn’t get to suck and fuck. Exclusively jacking off with a partner never occurred to me, and literally would’ve been laughed at by my peers had I done so when I was younger. Thankfully, not only have I discovered the value of self-love and pleasure, but also sharing that type of intimacy with another man. Experiment with spending some of your masturbation time using yourself as your object of appreciation. Watch yourself the mirror touching, rubbing, and stroking your body and gazing at yourself as you embody the pleasure your giving to yourself. Practice looking into your own eyes... it can be awkward at first, but it really helps you connect with yourself and makes it a lot easier to look into the eyes of others. If you are intrigued about a mutual masturbation session or “bate date” as I like to call them, try it out when you get the opportunity. There’s something very powerful in setting a hands only boundary that really inspires you creativity. Since mutual masturbation is very safe sex, a relaxation and security/safety feeling is always present as well as the lack of pressure to perform or clean out for penetration. @damianxxxdragon and I love all types of sex and a session of Penis admiration and heavy stroking is high on our list."